Will I will have to say this is a hard one cuz your body craves what your mine sometimes cannot controle.I must say I strugle with purity alot but I have not givin into my bodys wishes and I hope I never do.
yes... Purity is Sexy... that why you guys joined this group.. right?
the bible talks about it a bunch!! so why wouldn't it be, if you don't have it, youv'e been in sin!
besides, of course, after your'e married!!
i think purity is totally sexy because it's a one time thing. the person who you give your purity to is the only person who will get the gift --- because after losing your purity,you can't get it back.That's why waiting for your one in a million guy or girl is so important.
todally very sexy!! you just need to wait for marrige cuz you can never get purity back
I have to say AMEN to what Hddidom said!! I am 22...never been kissed. I dream about saying to my husband "I do" and telling my children that the only man I ever kissed was there father. ![]()
but honestly idk y some of yall say that u cant have a bf of in some cases a gf cuz well i hav i bf and hes todally awsome to me and i think that you can hav a bf or gf and still be pure ya kno im sorry but that makes no sence to me i mean its ur choice to stay pure and sometimes yea itll be hard but you can do it and still have a bf or gf i mean cuz u can just say no and still be pure just say no i kno i have but that dont make me unpure for havin to say no so im sorry but that just dont make sence to me
~lindsey
You just got to make sure that you are not getting into bad situations. See 1 Corinthians 6:18. It says to FLEE.
i agree wit Jcluvr1122, i think u can b pure and have a bf or gf. i have had 2 gfs and i'm still pure. i just remember my teaching from youth group and stuff from wen i wuz little. u can date but b carefull who it is and y u r dating that person.
oh yah, there's nothing in the Bible that says that you can't date!! it's kinda just a choice, but i chose to BCUZ sumtimes it's REAL easy wen you are dating to get into sin, like the major thing that y'all know wut im talkin about, but also, dating leads to strife and jealousy and envy, and a lot of that stuff!! but the only thing that's important is that you are God is being glorified in everything that you do!! =D
and sorry one other thing it dont make you unpure to give ur bf or gf a kiss now-and-then cuz if that makes you unpure then wat bout wen u kiss ur parents or family if it would make u unpure to kiss ur bf then to me it would sound like it would make you unpure to kiss ur parents
~lindsey
kissin ur parents is diff than kissin a bf or gf. its a totally diff relationship. u r related 2 ur parents, not ur bf or gf. i don't think its a sin if its not done in lust.
well you kno thats not how i ment it i kno
that ur related/not related i just ment that
you can kiss ur parents and it will be ok
but you can also kiss your bf/gf and it
also be ok thats all i ment by it
~lindsey
some of u make VERY good points! but, here are some of the dictionary definitions of purity.....
->the state of being unsullied by sin or moral wrong; lacking a knowledge of evil
->a woman's virtue or chastity
-> Freedom from sin or guilt; innocence; chastity
and the one i believe most.... physical chastity; virginity.
there,now some of u are proven right,others proven wrong! personally, i think PURTIY IS SEXY!!!!!!
~Jocelyn~
well in the aspect of:
->the state of being unsullied by sin or moral wrong; lacking a knowledge of evil. and,
-> Freedom from sin or guilt; innocence; chastity.
that would mean none of us r pure bcuz the bible says "For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God". but i believe the one u do. i think we r more able 2 achieve that one.
Hddidom January 22, 2008 @ 02:03 AM
Yeah it is!
I agree totally with what the last person said. Sometimes it is hard to let yours and gods wishes overrule your body's desire, but I made a promise to my parents, my God, my future husband(whoever God wants him to be), and myself that I will remain pure because My body is a temple for God and I will never give my body away to someone I am not completely commited to.
Plus I have dreamed of the day That I get married and my spouse and I can say to eachother, you are my first and last.
I think that is really hot personally, no matter what the people of this world say.