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So I thought I would start a topic....
I'm having friend problems, the base problem is a crush. :P Okay my friend had a pretty bad crush on a guy at our church, I'm not totally sure where her faith is but...she was over-stepping some lines on the guy. I felt so bad for him because he's like the nicest person in the world and wouldn't do anything to hurt her. But she got pretty stary-eyed over him, and I guess when I was sick some of the other girls in the youth group ended up kinda talking to her about it. So she backed down and I thought it was the end of it. But last week she made a comment to me about her character in a play having a bad crush on a cartoon person who's name she called the guy from church. She got REALLY giggly over it, and I honestly had no idea what to say.
Long story sorry, but I'm just not sure what my relationship with her is now, because she really went wild with it and went over lines at the guy. And I just feel weird, especially since I'm kinda stuck driving with her. Like what do I say to her? Am I overacting? I don't want to be weird about it but she seems oblivious to social cues. Any thoughts anyone on anything?
Jc_roxx May 17, 2008 @ 09:34 AM
i totally agree with music_lover!! you obviously have to acknowledge it sumtime!! and it's better now than never! and it will help your friend totally!! i mean, she might not thank you right away wen you say it, but in the long run, she'll totally be thankful and look back at that time wen sumone cared enough about her to say sumthing!! 
like ^(she)^ said, pray about it, and also just pray for her!! look up sum Scriptures and don't just be a good friend, but be a Godly friend!! ;D
Jesusfreakzrule July 09, 2008 @ 05:37 AM
Hey gurlz! what is up? i have a problem...can u listen real quick. comment me if u have an answer. so i went to philly for m-fuge 08 (yeah...i miss m-fuge...) and on one day (i think thursday) my friend kevin (who i was helping with asking my friend coral out) told me that my friend DANIEL wanted to ask me out. he even told him and glenn cuz they were his roomies. i sat there shocked. i liked daniel a bit but not who i really liked (my friend sean). so i'm nervous cuz whenever i c him next..he may ask me out. he's the first one to ever ask me out that is NOT a joke....i'm scared. i really wanna have a bf but he's not the guy i like a lot.
all daniel does is listen to this unchristian rap junk with lotsa cuss words and stuff about horrible stuffs. i let him listen with me to rock hoping he'll catch on but i dont think it is working......
can yall as sisters in christ help me???????
Music_lover March 20, 2008 @ 12:43 PM
I don't think u r overacting. maybe u should talk 2 her and tell her wat u think or u can and should tell it to someone about wat is going on, someone u trust, we have some girls like that in my youth group 2. they're ones who date almost EVERY boy in there and will do ANYTHING 2 get them 2 notice them. i think it's very unchristian 2 act like that, but that is just what I think. Anyways, i think u should pray about (and i will 2) that God will tell u the right words and the right way 2 handle it. that is all i can think 2 say now, hope i was some help 2 u. let me know if i can help u some more and i wish u the best of luck with it. also put it N God's hands he WILL know wat 2 do.